tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4745923313723535370.post934118878651366201..comments2011-04-06T15:32:17.043-04:00Comments on Things that make me go hmm?: Frustratedly singleMs Ling Linghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03590533996043402793noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4745923313723535370.post-58447161121812388012010-04-11T20:01:46.642-04:002010-04-11T20:01:46.642-04:00Total agreement Kia and I am 29 in a few months......Total agreement Kia and I am 29 in a few months...:(Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4745923313723535370.post-51789345482653365662010-03-29T22:26:37.885-04:002010-03-29T22:26:37.885-04:00Ughh..this is soo me right now!!(and will prolly b...Ughh..this is soo me right now!!(and will prolly be me 10 yrs from now)<br /><br />I dont get it!!Anaysahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15752520138612512254noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4745923313723535370.post-12512003643543711252009-12-30T10:18:21.818-05:002009-12-30T10:18:21.818-05:00I think you hit the nail on the head with the cour...I think you hit the nail on the head with the courage thing/pride thing. What a lot of women don't realize is that men too are nervous about entering into relationships. While there may be many other reasons, there is one common denominator - like women, they don't want to be hurt.<br />That's why the "cat callers" always say something like, "well forget you then," or some other profanity laced tirade when you turn them down. Their pride has been hurt, and their fear of being hurt by a woman is reaffirmed. Is it right or ok? No. But those aren't the type of guys you want anyway.<br />Now, the successful guys, same issue, different manifestation. These guys aren't the ones who'll get noticeably/verbally upset, but their pride is also affected by the turn down. Again, a punk move if you ask me, and not the kind of guy you want.<br />Add to that the fact that society tells men to have as many partners as they can (while conversely telling women to have just a few at most - see a problem here?) and you'll see why men are all screwed up. Innately, we want to have that meaningful relationship, but we're told that it'll end up bad, you'll be hurt, and will end up having wasted your time.<br />In short, men have to make the decision that they're willing to take that leap. Until they do, you'll be asking yourself the same questions.<br /><br />Side note: it's not so much that we want to be pursued as it is that we want to know you're interested. This goes back to the fear of being hurt. If you let us know you won't turn us down if we approach you, that may just be the confidence boost we need.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10315610810500281586noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4745923313723535370.post-76155269520536022072009-12-30T09:25:22.321-05:002009-12-30T09:25:22.321-05:00Sad but true. I am not sure you are either of thos...Sad but true. I am not sure you are either of those movie stars. How about Angela Davis???githonihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12428863349462495972noreply@blogger.com